冯瑞安的故事

Hello. So good to hear from you.

Thank you for asking, we’re all doing great but you’re right it has been a weird year with covid-19. We are so thankful that so far none of us has been ill. Elliot has stayed in school the whole time and it is a small school, just over 300 pupils, so they had had a couple of pupils and teachers that has been getting sick but they are alright now.

This year we have bought a cat for Elliot. He has talked about it for a while so he was very happy to finally get a little friend. . His name is Sixten and they just adore eachother! ?? Sixten is a ragdoll which is a special kind of cat that is very calm, cool and very much a peoples cat, he wants to join every adventure. They love to play and Elliot has build a house for him out of boxes. Every night when Elliot goes to bed Sixten is there with him. It is adorable!

Elliot has a lot of interests, he loves to invent things, to find new solutions and to talk! He talks constantly! He has so many things to say, and so many things to ask! Now when he’s getting older it is hard for us to answer all his questions but there’s google! We have to google sometimes to answer all his clever questions!

He also loves to play with friends. They plays a lot of computer games, minecraft and so on and he also loves to build with lego. He makes the most fantastic creations.

He also loves to eat! He is always ready to try on new things and there’s not many things that he doesn’t like. If we’re surprised about something he likes he just says, -  In China they eat a lot of this so maybe that’s why I like it soo much! ??

China is always with him, he speaks a lot if it. He tells everybody that he is from China and he is proud of it. Sometimes he asks about his family in China and if he has any siblings and where his biological parents are. We try to answer as truthfully as we can and we show him the pictures from Angel home and tell him that he was loved. ??We’re so thankful that he came to Angelhome and to all of you for loving him and taking so good care of him, thankyou.

Finally, we really hope the best for Angelhome and all of you. We wish you a very Happy New Year 2021.

Lots of love from all of us!

Maria, Stéphane and Elliot.

First picture from our small New year’s celebration with grandpa!

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谢谢你的问候，我们都好！但是你是对的，这是不可思议的一年，大家都笼罩在新冠病毒之下！我们感到幸运的是目前为止，我们都很好，冯瑞安一直呆在学校，这里很小，仅仅只有300多名学生，他们中间只有几个学生和老师被感染了，但是现在都已经好了！

今年我们给Elliot买了一只猫，都是他独自在照顾猫咪，多了一个小伙伴令他很高兴。猫咪的名字叫Sixten,他们很喜欢彼此。Sixten是一只布偶猫，温顺好静，对人非常友善，而且十分有灵性，他希望加入每一个冒险。Elliot在盒子外面为它搭建了一个小窝，每天晚上Elliot睡觉了，Sixten也在里面陪着他，太可爱了！

Elliot的兴趣爱好很丰富，喜欢发明创造、遇到问题喜欢寻找新的解决方案、语言表达能力也很棒！每天嘴巴都不停的在讲话，总有说不完的话，不断的在提问！随着他的长大，我们没有办法去解答他的问题，还好有谷歌！很多时候我们都需要依靠谷歌来回答这些有深度的问题。

他和小朋友相处很融洽，在一起玩很多电脑游戏，“我的世界”等等。他也非常热衷于乐高积木，作品富有创造力。

他依旧很好吃，一直准备好去尝试所有的新食物，没有他不喜欢的吃的。我们对他重口味感到惊讶，他就会说“在中国经常吃这个，也许这就是我喜欢的原因吧”

中国在他的心里，被他时长挂在嘴边！他告诉所有人自己来自中国，并且为此感到自豪。有时候他会问起在中国的家人，有没有兄弟姐妹，亲生父母在哪里。我们尽可能诚实地回答，给他看 angelhome的照片，告诉他我们爱他。我们感到非常幸运的是他来自天使之家，曾经得到了很多的爱，被他照顾的如此好，谢谢你！

最后，我们愿你和天使之家一切顺利，新年快乐！

送上我们最真挚的祝福

Maria, Stéphane and Elliot.

第一张照面是我们和爷爷在一起庆祝新年！

 “ We´re doing good over here. It was really cold today so Elliot had to wear hat and mittens to school. He doesn´t like it, he wants it to be easy, not so much clothes! :)

He also plays the piano, he started playing the violin but then he choose piano instead. He really likes it and now he is going to play att a small Concert that the school organizes . 

He really enjoys swimming, he is very good at it. All summer he is in the water and in the wintertime we go to different pools and he loves it. His favoriteplace to be is under water! ”

得知你的安好是最最重要的事情！ 你的家周围已经变冷了，但是你不愿意穿厚重的衣服，是不是因为你不怕冷？转眼你已经3年级的学生了，你在学校已经有很多好朋友，你喜欢数学，还喜欢弹钢琴，你都可以在学校组织的小型演奏会上演奏钢琴。你也很喜欢游泳，更喜欢待在水下，这是不是你不怕冷的原因呢？ 我相信你的身体一定是棒棒的。

看你依然是那个憨厚的“炮哥”！

 Hello and Happy New year to all of you!

We´re all doing great here. Elliot (RuiÀn) has had winterbreak from daycare so we have had lots of time together. We have really enjoyed it. We spent Xmas at my moms house and celebrated with my brother and his family. E really loves his cousins and they adore him. Actually they are coming to visit this coming weekend since it is Es birthdag the 8 of februari. He turns 6 years old and he is growing soo fast (as you can see in the pictures). His favourite things are still dinosaurs,the big octopus and he loves to learn new things. This fall he is going to start school and he is really looking forward to it. He also has started skischool this winter and he really likes it. We are taking a trip to the Mountains i march with my mom and my brother and family. That´s going to be soo much fun.

Elliot loves his daycare and all his friends there. they have soo much fun. Especially one little girl adores him and follow him around everywhere. Sometimes she refuses to stay at daycare if Elliot isn´t there. She is also very active and mischievous so the teachers know that when Elliot and her get together anything can happen! ; )

Elliots loves to talk but he can´t speak clearly yet. It is hard for some people to hear what he is saying but usually his friends and family knows.We are waiting for the doctors to call us about another operation that is going to help him to talk so we´ll see when we get a date for that.

He likes to talk about China and sometimes he says - "My mom in China tought me that or we travelled there when I was a baby". Ofcourse he just makes it up but it is cute that he wants China to be apart of his life.

We hope to hear from you soon!

Love

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你好，祝大家新年快乐！

我们都很好。瑞安的幼儿园有寒假，所以我们有很多时间在一起。我们正在享受这个假期。圣诞节，我们在我妈妈家和我的弟弟及他的家人一起庆祝的。瑞安很喜欢他的表兄妹，他们也崇拜他。其实他们这个周末会来拜访因为2月8日是瑞安的生日。他6岁了，长的很快（如你所看到的照片）。他最喜欢的仍是恐龙，大章鱼，他喜欢学习新东西。这个秋天，他要开始上学了，他真的很期待。这个冬天他也开始学滑雪，他也很喜欢。我和我的妈妈及弟弟全家人一起去山上旅行。那将会是非常有趣的。

瑞安喜欢他的日托和那的所有朋友。他们很有趣。尤其是一个小女孩崇拜他，到处都跟着他。有时如果瑞安不再托日所，小女孩也拒绝呆在那。她也非常活跃，淘气，所以老师们知道，当瑞安和她在一起什么都可能发生！

瑞安特爱说话，但他讲得还不是很清楚。有些人很难听懂他在说什么，但通常他的朋友和家人都知道。我们正在等待医生给我们回复，是关于有助于他说话的手术。所以我们在等待手术的日期。

他喜欢谈论中国，有时他说：“我妈妈在中国教我，我到那里时，还是个婴儿”。当然，他只是说说，但很可爱，他希望中国是他生活的一部分。

我们希望不久能收到你的来信！

Hello，

Thankyou so much for your mail. It is always so nice to hear some news from you. 

Here comes a little update From us here in Sweden. I will send two emails with photos of Elliot.

We have had a fantastic summer with our Elliot. This summer has been so nice with lots of sun and great weather. We spent 3 weeks in our summerhouse. The house is right by the lake so Elliot has been swimming a lot this summer. We also spent 1 week with Elliots cousins and family and his grandmother and he loves to spend time with all of them. Ofcourse he is the youngest so he gets all the attention he wants. We went swimming in the ocean and went fishing for crabfish, just for fun, we let them out again. Elliot had a blast, he is such an adventurer.

Elliot is growing so fast. He has a big apetite on life. He loves to explore new things and learn about life. He is very persistant and always asks "Why" about everything. He wants to know and understand everything.He is a very happy boy, he sings all the time and he is a litte mischievious, always with a twinkle in his eye. He is very loved by all the people around us.

After our summer vacation he started in a new daycare wich is closer to our house. It takes about 10-15 min to walk there. He really likes it. And it is so fun to see him make new friends. He had an operation in april so now he has a whole palate. We are very happy that everything has worked out and now we are starting our visits at the speech therapists. He speaks a lot but has some difficulties with his pronacuation. But it is very normal but now after the succesfull operation and 6 months to heal after he is ready to start training.

Now Christmas has past too. time really flies. We have had a great Xmas and ofcourse we celebrated Elliots birthday the 8 of feb. He got lots of gifts but his absolute favourite was a new bike. (He has grown out of his old) So now he wants to ride the bike everywhere, wich is hard since it is winter here and we have lots of snow. But spring will get here eventually and then I.m sure that he will spend a lot of time on his bike.

We are so thankful for all the things you have done for our Elliot and hope that you feel that he has a good life with us here in Sweden. We know that there was a woman who took special interest in him, one of the volounters I think, and hope that she is happy to hear about him and see the pictures. He talks about China and says that he is born there. We have saved little things from our trip and all the things that we got with us from you for Elliot to see when he gets older and maybe starts to ask about China. We would really appreciate if you could give us the namne of the volounter, just for us to be able to let him know as he grows older.

Lots of love from all of us!

Take care!

Maria, Stéphane and Elliot

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谢谢你的邮件。能收到你的消息总是好的。 

这是来自我们瑞典的最新消息。我会发两封有Elliot照片的邮件。
我们和Elliot 度过了一个美好的夏天。这个夏天有充足的阳光和好天气。我们在我们的夏日小屋里过了三个星期。房子就在湖边，所以这个夏天Elliot一直在游泳。我们和Elliot的堂兄一家还有他的祖母一起生活了一周。Elliot很喜欢和他们呆在一起。
因为他是最小的一个，他得到了他想要的所有关注。他在海里游泳，还钓鱼，只是为了好玩，我们钓到后会放生。Elliot 很勇猛，是个冒险家。
Elliot 长得很快，他对生活充满兴趣。他喜欢探索新鲜事物并学习如何生活。他很执着对每件事都喜欢问为什么。他想知道了解每件事。他是一个快乐的男孩，总在唱歌，他还有些小淘气，爱眨眼睛。我们周围的人都很爱他。
暑假之后，他开始上幼儿园，离我们的房子，步行十到十五分钟。他很喜欢。看他结交新朋友很有意思。
他在四月份做了腭裂手术。我们很高兴，所有的手术都完成了，我们开始语言训练，他说的很多，但有些发音有困难。但这也很正常，在做了成功的手术和六个月的愈合，他准备好开始训练。
现在圣诞节也过完了，时间飞逝。我们过了一个完美的圣诞节，而且在2月8号庆祝了Elliot的生日。他收到了许多礼物，当然他最喜欢的是一辆新的自行车。他长大了。他想骑着车到处跑，但现在是冬季，有很多雪。但春天终将会到来。我敢肯定他会花很多时间在骑自行车上。
我们非常感谢你们为Elliot做得一切，也希望你们能感觉到他在瑞典和我们有一个很好的生活。我们知道有个阿姨对他很关注，我猜是个志愿者，希望她很高兴得到Elliot的消息和照片。他会谈到中国，并且说他出生在中国。我们在去中国的旅途中并没有得到很多信息。等他长大后他会问起中国。如果你能把那个志愿者的名字告诉我们，我将不胜感激。等他长大些就可以让他知道。
爱你们，保重！
Maria, Stephane and Elliot. 

刚刚收到了冯瑞安妈妈来自瑞典的邮件，她告诉我们：“安安现在的新名字叫“Elliot” ,，他一直让我们很忙，看上去，他非常享受他现在的新生活。安安喜欢吃东西，喜欢游泳，还喜欢浇我们种植的植物。他很幽默，经常和我们开玩笑。比如他假装睡觉，之后让我们知道他只是在和我们开玩笑。他是希望我们发现他仅仅在“假装”之后而对他“生气”并且去“惩罚他”。 他还有一个私人的游泳池，他喜欢在那里玩他的玩具。一旦他觉得冷了，就会钻进我们的大毛巾里暖和，等暖和过来后就立刻又回到大池子里继续玩他的玩具。他从我们的一个朋友那里得到一辆车，是一个很大的能让人坐在里面开动的车。他非常喜欢这辆车，想开着它去任何他想去的地方。我们还给他买了一个头盔，准备他开车的时候使用。安安太积极活跃了，他渴望去尝试任何他感兴趣的东西。”最后，安安父母不忘感谢之前我们对他的照顾。

祝福安安，祝福安安一家！

 

2012年6月9日上午10时，冯瑞安来自瑞典的收养父母来天使之家接他去瑞典，自此，我们的泡哥有了自己的父母，有了自己的家！天使之家全体员工都为这个孩子感到高兴，也都深深地祝福冯瑞安健康、幸福、快乐！

安安初次见到父母有些认生，开始不肯让爸爸抱。当我们的保育员把一包好吃的食品放到安安爸爸手里的时候，事情发生了转机，冯瑞安同学张开双臂，扑到了爸爸的怀里。

安安的爸爸是个帅气的男人，也很安静，自从抱上安安之后，就再也没有放下过这个孩子。

安安的爸爸紧紧将孩子拥在怀里。这个男人将给安安一个温暖的家，一个可以依靠的坚实的臂膀……

看着父子两个在一起的温馨画面，很感动。

六月初冯瑞安来自荷兰的收养父母即将来天使之家接安安回家。

南山同学的摄影技术就是高超，把我们的安安同学拍的英俊、稳重、傲视一切！

另外，还要报告一个好消息，冯瑞安的家庭有消息了，可能六月份就会来接孩子，天使之家的每个人都为安安感到高兴，祝福安安：平安一生！

天使之家所有的孩子一出生就面临着很多的不顺，我们的炮哥冯瑞安也是一样。记得年初我带着冯瑞安和李希晴为了躲过早高峰，天未亮就离开天使之家来到位于健翔桥西北角的伊美尔医院准备手术。在等了两个多小时后，我们被告知由于晴格格有感冒症状不能手术，而炮哥的血象太高和中间裂开的那块上牙床翘得太高而不敢手术。回来时医生也给了我们建议，继续观察孩子的血象，另外要专人一天二十四小时对冯瑞安翘起的牙床进行按压！血象高一直是安安的顽症，这些日子来能用的方法都用过了，但一直降不下来。用手指二十四小时按压翘起的牙床实在是件不容易的事情，只要一压，安安就疼得哭。就这样坚持了一段时间后，我们被迫放弃。好在孩子还算争气，9月8号，炮哥又在周依慧小美女的陪同下再次来到伊美尔。这次一切顺利，当天就完成手术。术后的安安形象大变，没了那块翘起的牙床，姐姐们都说安安没有原来那么帅了。哈哈，可能是因为大家都习惯了冯瑞安小朋友原来的形象了。

原本定好的手术计划和时间，因为主刀医生出现意外的身体状况，安安的手术时间只好再往后推延一段时间了。目前，安安的身体状况很好，并拥有大批“粉丝”妈妈。